As many of you know, Rainey was in the hospital this past week. Here is how it all went down...
On Wednesday morning around 4 a.m. James and I woke up to Rainey coughing mucus and crying hysterically in her crib. We were sure she had just caught what every other child at church last Sunday had. On top of the cold, we could tell she had a slight fever. As I went down stairs to grab the Tylenol and a fresh bottle, James brought her into our bed so we could snuggle her back sleep and get a few more hours of shut eye before he was off to work. We immediately gave her her proper dosage of Tylenol and within a few minutes she had her chunky little arms wrapped around her Daddy's neck and was snoring like a bear.
About an hour later we woke up for a second time, except instead of coughing up mucus, she was now puking all over our clean bed sheets. We immediately took off her vomit covered pajamas, gave her a warm bath, and made our little "pukers bed" on the living room floor. As I lay there snuggling my sick little girl, I asked James to bring me the rectal thermometer. Though, I had given her Tylenol over an hour ago, her entire body was burning up and, by a mothers touch, felt extremely hot. Her temperature read 103.5. As we sat on the living room floor, James and I looked at each other. We both questioned if we should take her into the emergency room. After much thought, we decided to wait a few more hours to see if her temperature would go down. At this point, we were sure the Tylenol was just taking a few extra minutes to kick into effect. James hurried and got ready for work. He kissed us both good-bye and was out the door and on his way to base. I turned up the heater as Rainey and I transitioned into the recliner, snuggled with blankets, and continued to rock her to sleep. We weren't asleep for more than an hour when Rainey woke up for the third time. She was fussing a tad but looked at me as if she was confused at who I was.
"Rainey, what's wrong sweet girl?"
She looked at me, raised an eyebrow, and then started convulsing. Scared to death I held her tight. After a few seconds I remembered what my friend explained a few months back. Her little boy suffered from febrile seizures, which is a seizure brought on by a high fever. I immediately put her on the ground. I cannot recall setting her down softly, or if I must have tossed her. I was shaking. Unsure what to do. She was now pale and her face was starting to turn blue, especially around her little lips. Her eyes rolled into the back of her head, looking as if she was possessed. I prayed. I cried. Though, no one could hear me, I screamed for help hoping that someone would hear my call through the cement walls. I ran to the phone. As I dialed 911 I realized, I am in Germany! 911 doesn't exist. I didn't know what emergency number to call. I dialed my friend Melissa, who lives a few blocks down. She answered the phone with a tired, "Hello?"
"Melissa, she's not breathing! She is blue. Help me. Please! My baby, oh, my baby!"
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She responded with a now wide awake, "What? Who? Calm down. What happened?"
I explained that Rainey had seizured and now her entire face was blue. She wasn't moving and she was unresponsive. I told her I was alone and didn't know how to call the ambulance. Melissa then reassured me that she was on her way. Her husband was calling the ambulance and I needed to stay calm.
I immediately called James at work. One of his co-workers answered the phone and before he could finish his introduction I tried my best to stay calm, but instead I screamed, "This is Brittany Joseph. I need to talk to Joseph now! It's an emergency!" James got on the phone and I then explained for a second time what had happened. Then with a choked up voice, he said he was on his way to the house. As soon as I hung up the phone Melissa arrived at the house and she was out of breath. She ran all the way up the hill in a hurry. It took around 15 minutes for the ambulance to finally arrive at our house. Even though she was still blue, Rainey was now breathing, barely. She was extremely tired and couldn't stay awake. Melissa and I tried everything from shaking to pinching to ensure she kept her tired eyes open.
The EMT's walked in and began to ask what had happened, though, not one person spoke English. I was very upset seeing as no one did anything besides sit around the living room and stare at my daughter who was fighting to breath. Finally, James arrived at the house and Rainey was loaded into the ambulance and we were on our way to the hospital.
We arrived at the hospital a little after 8 a.m. The emergency room doctor and nurse were very nice, though, I wasn't too fond of their practices. The doctor explained that she wanted to take some blood samples to find out whether or not this fever and seizure was caused by something viral or bacterial. That way, they would know how to treat it. As I held Rainey's hand and stroked her soft blonde hair, the doctor began drawing blood.
*Now, when I say I wasn't too "fond" of their practices, here is why. Feel free to skip if you don't want to hear a rant.*
We all know how blood is drawn in the states. Washing hands and wearing gloves are a must when drawing blood. You don't want to infect the patient with anything that may be on your hands, nor do you want the patient to contaminate you. The nurse usually uses a butterfly needle, which especially on babies, isn't as painful. It is also a closed system, meaning, the blood doesn't touch air and therefore can't get contaminated or clot inside the needle as easily. Rainey's doctor did not wash her hands or wear gloves. She chose the biggest need I have ever seen. In fact, it was larger than the needle used to drain James' cyst. She held in her unwashed and ungloved hands three open vials. I watched for over ten minutes as Rainey's blood dripped slowly from the needle into the open container, half of which, spilled on the bedding and the doctors shaking hands. Once the vials were filled, she passed the three vials uncapped to the second nurse who was standing patiently behind her. The nurse took the tray, turned around, bumped into the counter, and spilled ever last drop of blood out of the vials. And with no choice, we had to do the whole long process over again. This is a small matter compared to what all went on in the hospital while Rainey was in their care. Drawing blood was not the only thing that irritated James and I about this hospital. Much of it I do not want to discuss, but I can reassure you, we will never be going back to this health care facility!
*End Rant*
Finally after an hour of poking, crying, and many tests on our sweet Rainey, we were sent upstairs to be admitted into the children's ward. There we met our roommate. She was the cutest blue eyed, blonde haired two year old I have ever seen. Her name was Kira and she immediately greeted us with a smile. Her and her mother were German and didn't speak much English. Poor Kira was going through the same thing as our daughter, except she had already had four seizures during her stay. Rainey and Kira became good friends and laughed the days away from inside their beds in our small hospital room.
We were also visited by the hospital clown. It was so neat to see the children's faces light up when he walked into the room. He made them both giggle hysterically. Even though we couldn't understand what he was saying due to the language barrier, it was still a blast and I don't think Rainey minded one bit! He made us all animal balloons and taught us how to spin plates on a stick, but I doubt I will ever remember how to do so.
James stayed the night with Rainey her third night in the hospital. He insisted that I went home to spend some one on one time with Jay and get some decent sleep. I was very unsure about it at first. Not because I didn't trust him with our child, but because if anything happened to our baby, "I" am not there to help. I couldn't stand the thought of leaving her in the hospital and me not being there to snuggle her. He assured me that everything would be okay and he would keep a good eye on her. He promised to call every few hours with updates as to how she is doing. I agreed, and Jay and I left for the house. I cried my eyes out the entire night thinking of the past few days and how heart breaking it was to watch our child go through such a scary experience. Every few hours that James called, Rainey was awake and giggling. He said they had played peed-a-boo the entire night until she fell asleep around 4 a.m. I am so grateful to have the husband I do. His little girls are so blessed to have him as their father and couldn't have picked a more loving and caring Daddy.
After many days of testing, we were finally told what was wrong with Rainey. Her fever was finally under control which was good news, but her cold had turned to bronchitis and they were wanting to keep her a few more days to insure it didn't turn into pneumonia. She also had a large amount of bad bacteria in her stool which was causing horrible diarrhea and dehydration. Because of her diarrhea we were switched to the "infectious" ward and had to be isolated from all the other children in the hospital, including Kira. They also caught a heart murmur, which is common in some children, but wanted to do more testing to see how severe it may be. We agreed to an ultrasound on her aortic valve, which found that she may only have two leaflets instead of the normal three. We weren't told much about it due to the doctor not being able to speak much English, so we are going to have to re-scan with our current pediatrician and get results from an American hospital.
After five long days in the hospital we were finally released to go home! Rainey was so excited to get her IV taken out of her hand and could not stop waving at everyone who walked by. The first few minutes we were home, she crawled straight into the bathroom, pulled herself up onto the tub, and screamed with excitement. She was so exited to finally be able to take a bubble bath with her big sister Jaylee and then afterwards, sit by the warm fire to dry off. It is so nice to be home as a family again!
My testimony has grown so much throughout this experience. This past week has shown me that the Lord is always there and will always be there to call upon. James and I were so stressed and unsure as to what was going to happen. But once he placed his hands upon her head and gave her a blessing, we felt peace and I knew in my heart that everything was going to be okay. I just had to have faith and the Lord would do the rest.
I want to thank all of our amazing family and friends who have prayed for Rainey's speedy recovery and an extra shout out to those who brought us dinners and visited in the hospital. Because of you guys, I kept my sanity. It was so refreshing to come home from a long stay in the hospital and not have to worry about cleaning the house or making dinner. Instead, we were able to sit down as a family and snuggle while enjoying each others company!
- Brittany
